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Why Are Our Inner Voices So Mean and Critical?

Most of us would never speak to a friend the way our inner voice sometimes speaks to us. Yet many people quietly live with harsh and critical self-talk. In this post, Clinical Psychologist David Hennessy explores why our inner dialogue becomes so judgmental and how we can transform it. Drawing on the latest evidence from compassion-focused, acceptance-based, and mindfulness approaches, this article explains how self-criticism often begins as protection and how to build a calmer, kinder inner voice.

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David the Psychologist, bald and wearing a colourful paisley shirt with a bead bracelet on his right wrist featuring one red bead and one green bead, seated thoughtfully and reflecting on human kindness and relationships.
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Why are we Kind to Strangers and Mean to Loved Ones?

We’re often kinder to strangers than to loved ones. Evidence shows this comes from attachment, emotion regulation, and learned patterns, not lack of care. Understanding these dynamics helps us respond with awareness, compassion, and respect while distinguishing them from domestic or family violence.

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