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David the Psychologist, bald and wearing a colourful paisley shirt with a bead bracelet on his right wrist featuring one red bead and one green bead, seated thoughtfully and reflecting on human kindness and relationships.
Applied Psychology for Everyday Life

Why are we Kind to Strangers and Mean to Loved Ones?

We’re often kinder to strangers than to loved ones. Evidence shows this comes from attachment, emotion regulation, and learned patterns, not lack of care. Understanding these dynamics helps us respond with awareness, compassion, and respect while distinguishing them from domestic or family violence.

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Thoughts are not facts | David the Psychologist smiling with arms outstretched in front of a mural showing a superhero version of himself.
Acceptance & Commitment

Thoughts Are Just Our Minds Making Meaning

Thoughts are invented within our minds. They help us make meaning through comparisons, ideas, fantasies, and possibilities, but they are not to be taken as unquestioned facts or truths. By observing them with caution and care, we create space to act in ways that align with our values rather than being swept along by fear, desire, habit, or old patterns.

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Values-based choices | David the Psychologist, bald and smiling in a colourful paisley shirt, holding an apple in one hand and a book in the other, with the sun setting over the ocean. Subtle text reads: David the Psychologist @hennessyclinicalpsychology.
Mindfulness, Acceptance, Compassion

It’s Not the Apple

Apples are healthy, but the most important part is not the apple. Real wellbeing comes from values based choices woven into daily life. Preparing food, moving our body, resting well, and connecting with others are simple but powerful actions. Just schedule the basics, do them, repeat, and discover the consistency that supports lasting health

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Boardwalk path winding through mangroves, symbolising creating a path and practising stick-to-itiveness
Mindfulness, Acceptance, Compassion

Create a Path and Practice Stick-to-itiveness

Clarifying what matters, turning values into action, and practising stick to itiveness can help create steadiness in life. This article explores how values based actions, scheduled into everyday routines, support resilience even when motivation and emotions fluctuate.

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